Ep 2: Anchor, island & waves: Attachment Theory

 

Do you know what your attachment style is?

 

In this week’s episode, Yancy discusses Attachment Theory with behavioural scientist and counsellor, Lucille Shackelton. The dive into its 4 distinct styles, and the sometimes uncomfortable questions it can invoke!

Attachment theory is founded on the idea that our caregiver-child relationship dynamics shape how we hold close intimate connections as adults. In essence: “your attachment style is a blueprint of your basic assumptions about safety and trust*.”

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    Content mentioned:

    Turn on trigger quiz by Shan Boodram

    https://www.thegameofdesire.com/quiz

    Sexual Greenflags explanation from Intimacy with Maya

    https://www.instagram.com/p/CXjzsEYvXc6/

    Loops and instrumentals by J.u.D.

    https://www.instagram.com/judexperience/

    Books mentioned:

    Wired for Love by Stan Tatkin

    Wired for Dating by Stan Tatkin

    Your brain on love by Stan Tatkin

    Attached by Amir Levine & Rachel Heller

    * The Attachment Theory Workbook by Annie Chem

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